Support After Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Infant Loss

Hi, I'm Becky

Hello, my friend. I’m so sorry you’re here, but I am grateful you found me. I know this can be a vulnerable place, and I want you to know you are not alone.

When I was 20 weeks pregnant, doctors told us our son, Kevin, was incompatible with life. I know firsthand how lonely, confusing, and painful this journey can feel.

Whether your loss was recent or years ago, you’re welcome here. We’ll take it one step at a time. Start wherever feels right for you today.

What you might be feeling after losing a baby:

After losing a baby, you might feel:

Numb or empty
Angry at how unfair this is
Guilty, or wondering if you did something wrong
Like no one understands
Distant from God, or struggling to trust Him
Pressure to move on before you’re ready
A physical ache, like your body is still waiting for your baby

All of this is normal. Your grief is real, and your baby mattered.

From one mama to another:

I made this short video for you, about what helped me after losing my Baby Kevin.

Short recordings for mamas

Each recording is about 8 minutes or less, with one simple tool to help you through your grief.

Also on Apple Podcasts and Spotify

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What others are saying

"The way Becky teaches The Grief Cycle is so very helpful."

-Life After Loss Conference Attendee

"My experience learning from her was eye-opening and life-changing. "

-Marie

"Becky is sincere, real, and so qualified to teach steps that are beyond effective!"

-Heidi

"Your emails over the last couple of years and your book have been wonderful. The suggestions in your book have helped me so much."

-Cammy

"As a fellow sufferer, you have taught me with your heart. For being real, open and vulnerable, thank you."

-Daryl

Ready to Go Deeper?

The three free videos are just a starting point. When you're ready for more support, here are two ways to go further with The Grief Cycle framework.

Option 1: The Book

Finding Joy in The Grief Cycle is a guide for navigating grief, walking you step by step through mourning, lament, gratitude, and celebration, at your own pace.

It's intentionally short, because when you are grieving, a long book can feel like one more thing you don't have the bandwidth for.

You'll be surprised how much this little book can help.

Get the book on Amazon

Option 2: The Grief Cycle Companion Guide

The Companion is a free, weekly guide through The Grief Cycle. Each week, you'll receive an email with a link to a short video where I provide more background and detail on a chapter from Finding Joy in The Grief Cycle, along with questions to help you apply the framework to your situation and process your grief. The book teaches the framework. The companion helps you put it into practice.

You've been through a lot and you don't have to carry it alone.

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My message comes from personal experience, including the loss of my own son. Read my full story →

You Can Get Through This

I'll teach you practical tools to help you work through your grief so you can find peace and joy in life after loss.