I can help you Drop the Cactus!
In this short video I explain how my husband's heart attack at 47, triggered my need to control and how learning to Drop the Cactus changed everything for me.
I would love to help you begin your journey of letting go of controlling patterns, so you can create inner peace and build deeper connections in your relationships!
Join me today!

What you'll get:
- Lifetime access to all recorded video lessons, so you can learn at your own pace
- Downloadable workbook to help you deepen your learning and apply the insights to your daily life
- Access everything you need right from your computer or from the convenient app
- Exclusive access to private, guided monthly meditations that help you stay grounded and focused
- Bonus: The Time Matters - Take Time to Make Time mini-course FREE! Learn how to prioritize what truly matters and make time for the things that bring you peace
- Pay in Full BONUS: Free 40 minute one-on-one coaching session
What if...
- You no longer needed others to act a certain way to find peace.
- Your thoughts focused on the good you can create and control in your life, instead of what others are doing.
- No more frustration or resentment about how others "should" be; instead, your mind is filled with appreciation for who they are.
- You could love and accept those closest to you exactly as they are—without expectations—creating a deeper, more authentic connection.
- You let go of trying to control life’s circumstances, trusting that everything unfolds as it’s meant to, and embracing peace in the flow.
- You felt in control of your inner world, experiencing peace and joy in the present moment.
It's All possible. I'll show you how. Join today.
Jane
I love your cactus reminder theme and how you carry it into everything, even your clothing. I love the humanness (is that even a word?) as you share your own failures and what you learn to do better because of them. I love the simple visuals of the slides that make you think but don't have thousands of words to digest.
Marie
Before starting the Drop the Cactus program, I thought I understood my struggles and had the tools to handle them. But the program opened my eyes to a deeper truth: my anger wasn’t just about others' choices, it was about my need to control my daughter. I believed if I could change her, my life would be easier and happier. As I applied the tools from Becky’s course, I realized I didn’t need to control anyone. I had the power to change my own thoughts, feelings, and actions. Becky’s course gave me a new perspective and a new heart, helping me see the happiness that was always there. Her relatable stories and insightful slides made everything click. Thanks to her, I’ve learned to drop the cactus!