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Hi, I'm Becky Beck, Creator of the What Matters App

An app focused on helping you work through your grief, and find joy in life after the loss of your baby.

If you’re feeling:

• Triggered by the raw, painful emotions of losing your baby that seem to come out of nowhere?
• Overcome with hopelessness, as though the weight of grief will never lift?
• Anger over the life of your baby that was taken too soon?
• Overwhelmed or stuck, unable to move forward, no matter how hard you try?
• The ache of missing your baby is too much to bear?
• Or, years later, are you still suffering deep pain from the loss of your baby, with no end in sight?

You’re not alone. The pain of losing a baby doesn't follow a timeline, and sometimes it feels like the loss is a constant, never-ending presence. But there is hope—healing is possible, even when it feels impossible.

My grief journey began the day my baby received his fatal diagnosis.

I was 20 weeks pregnant when doctors told me my son was incompatible with life. We declined the option to terminate the pregnancy and chose to let him live, however long that would be.

Losing my son was the most difficult thing I have ever gone through, and yet somehow, the most beautiful experience of my life. I have come to know that every soul has a purpose--no matter how short their life may be.

Find Comfort and Healing in the

What Matters App

• Regain a sense of control when everything feels uncertain and out of control. The What Matters App helps you focus on the things you can control, guiding you on how to take small steps toward healing.
• Practical tools designed to help you stay grounded and present, allowing you to find peace and a sense of joy, even in the midst of loss.

• Access to Finding Joy in The Grief Cycle: Your Guide for Navigating Grief. These videos offer you a roadmap through the emotional storm, helping you understand and process your grief more effectively.

Inside the What Matters App you'll find programs like these to support you:

Support for pregnant mamas whose baby isn't expected to survive

A program for mothers who have lost a baby

Virtual support groups and private community 

Finding Joy in The Grief Cycle: A simple step by step guide for working through grief of any kind 

The loss of a baby can leave you feeling lost, overwhelmed, or trapped in grief. The What Matters App is here to provide instant support—giving you the guidance and resources you need exactly when you need them. 

• Compassionate guidance through each stage of grief, empowering you to find hope as you navigate the difficult emotions of anger, sadness, and hopelessness with patience and self-compassion.

•  Instant access to support whenever the weight of grief feels too much to bear. With the What Matters App, help is always at your fingertips.

• Stories of hope and healing from other mamas who understand what you’re going through—real experiences, real support.

• Simple, actionable tools to help you feel more present, less overwhelmed, and better equipped to face each day.

• Short, digestible videos that offer practical guidance to help you find hope and healing, one step at a time.

A safe space to work through your grief, find healing, and create a joyful life after loss, centered on what matters most.